52 Proven Stress Reducers

52 Proven Stress Reducers

  1. Get up fifteen minutes earlier in the morning. The inevitable morning mishaps will be less stressful.

  2. Prepare for the morning the evening before. Set the breakfast table, make lunches, put out the clothes you plan to wear, etc.

  3. Don?t rely on your memory. Write down appointment times, when to pick up the laundry, when library books are due, etc. ("The palest ink is better than the most retentive memory." – Old Chinese Proverb)

  4. Do nothing which, after being done, leads you to tell a lie.

  1. Make duplicates of all
    keys. Bury a house key in a secret spot in the garden and carry a
    duplicate car key in your wallet, apart from your key ring.

  2. Practice
    preventive maintenance. Your car, appliances, home, and relationships
    will be less likely to break down/fall apart "at the worst possible
    moment."

  3. Be prepared to wait. A paperback can make a wait in a post office line almost pleasant.

  4. Procrastination is stressful. Whatever you want to do tomorrow, do today; whatever you want to do today, do it now.

  5. Plan
    ahead. Don?t let the gas tank get below one-quarter full; keep a
    well-stocked "emergency shelf" of home staples; don?t wait until you?re
    down to your last bus token or postage stamp to buy more; etc.

  6. Don?t
    put up with something that doesn?t work right. If your alarm clock,
    wallet, shoe laces, windshield wipers ? whatever ? are a constant
    aggravation, get them fixed or get new ones.

  7. Allow 15 minutes of extra time to get to appointments. Plan to arrive at an airport one hour before domestic departures.

  8. Eliminate (or restrict) the amount of caffeine in your diet.

  9. Always
    set up contingency plans, "just in case." ("If for some reason either
    of us is delayed, here?s what we?ll do?" kind of thing. Or, "If we get
    split up in the shopping center, here?s where we?ll meet.")

  10. Relax your standards. The world will not end if the grass doesn?t get mowed this weekend.

  11. Pollyanna-Power! For every one thing that goes wrong, there are probably 10 or 50 or 100 blessings. Count ?em!

  12. Ask
    questions. Taking a few moments to repeat back directions, what someone
    expects of you, etc., can save hours. (The old "the hurrieder I go, the
    behinder I get, " idea.)

  13. Say "No!" Saying "no"
    to extra projects, social activities, and invitations you know you
    don?t have the time or energy for takes practice, self-respect, and a
    belief that everyone, everyday, needs quiet time to relax and be alone.

  14. Unplug
    your phone. Want to take a long bath, meditate, sleep, or read without
    interruption? Drum up the courage to temporarily disconnect. (The
    possibility of there being a terrible emergency in the next hour or so
    is almost nil.) Or use an answering machine.

  15. Turn
    "needs" into preferences. Our basic physical needs translate into food,
    water, and keeping warm. Everything else is a preference. Don?t get
    attached to preferences.

  16. Simplify, simplify, simplify?

  17. Make
    friends with nonworriers. Nothing can get you into the habit of
    worrying faster than associating with chronic worrywarts.

  18. Get up and stretch periodically if your job requires that you sit for extended periods.

  19. Wear earplugs. If you need to find quiet at home, pop in some earplugs.

  20. Get enough sleep. If necessary, use an alarm clock to remind you to go to bed.

  21. Create
    order out of chaos. Organize your home and workspace so that you always
    know exactly where things are. Put things away where they belong and
    you won?t have to go through the stress of losing things.

  22. When
    feeling stressed, most people tend to breathe in short, shallow
    breaths. When you breathe like this, stale air is not expelled,
    oxidation of the tissues is incomplete, and muscle tension frequently
    results. Check your breathing throughout the day, and before, during,
    and after high-pressure situations. If you find your stomach muscles
    are knotted and your breathing is shallow, relax all your muscles and
    take several deep, slow breaths. Note how, when you?re relaxed, both
    your abdomen and chest expand when you breathe.

  23. Writing
    your thoughts and feelings down (in a journal, or on paper to be thrown
    away) can help you clarify things and can give you a renewed
    perspective.

  24. Try the following yoga technique
    whenever you feel the need to relax. Inhale deeply through you nose to
    the count of eight. Then, with lips puckered, exhale very slowly
    through your mouth to the count of 16, or for as long as you can.
    Concentrate on the long sighing sound and feel the tension dissolve.
    Repeat 10 times.

  25. Inoculate yourself against a
    feared event. Example: before speaking in public, take time to go over
    every part of the experience in your mind. Imagine what you?ll wear,
    what the audience will look like, how you will present your talk, what
    the questions will be and how you will answer them, etc. Visualize the
    experience the way you would have it be. You?ll likely find that when
    the time comes to make the actual presentation, it will be "old hat"
    and much of your anxiety will have fled.

  26. When
    the stress of having to get a job done gets in the way of getting the
    job done, diversion ? a voluntary change in activity and/or environment
    ? may be just what you need.

  27. Talk it out.
    Discussing your problems with a trusted friend can help clear your mind
    of confusion so you can concentrate on problem solving.

  28. One
    of the most obvious ways to avoid unnecessary stress is to select an
    environment (work, home, leisure) which is in line with your personal
    needs and desires. If you hate desk jobs, don?t accept a job which
    requires that you sit at a desk all day. If you hate to talk politics,
    don?t associate with people who love to talk politics, etc.

  29. Learn to live one day at a time.

  30. Every day, do something you really enjoy.

  31. Add an ounce of love to everything you do.

  32. Take a hot bath or shower (or a cool one in summertime) to relieve tension.

  33. Do something for somebody else.

  34. Focus on understanding rather than on being understood; on loving rather than on being loved.

  35. Do something that will improve your appearance. Looking better can help you feel better.

  36. Schedule
    a realistic day. Avoid the tendency to schedule back-to-back
    appointments; allow time between appointments for a breathing spell.

  37. Become more flexible. Some things are worth not doing perfectly and some issues are well to compromise upon.

  38. Eliminate destructive self-talk: "I?m too old to?," "I?m too fat to?," etc.

  39. Use
    your weekend time for a change of pace. If you work week is slow and
    patterned, make sure there is action and time for spontaneity built
    into your weekends. If your work week is fast-paced and full of people
    and deadlines, seek peace and solitude during your days off. Feel as if
    you aren?t accomplishing anything at work? Tackle a job on the weekend
    which you can finish to your satisfaction.

  40. "Worry
    about the pennies and the dollars will take care of themselves." That?s
    another way of saying: take care of the todays as best you can and the
    yesterdays and the tomorrows will take care of themselves.

  41. Do
    one thing at a time. When you are with someone, be with that person and
    with no one or nothing else. When you are busy with a project,
    concentrate on doing that project and forget about everything else you
    have to do.

  42. Allow yourself time ? everyday ? for privacy, quiet, and introspection.

  43. If
    an especially unpleasant task faces you, do it early in the day and get
    it over with; then the rest of your day will be free of anxiety.

  44. Learn to delegate responsibility to capable others.

  45. Don?t
    forget to take a lunch break. Try to get away from your desk or work
    area in body and mind, even if it?s just for 15 or 20 minutes.

  46. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing something or saying anything that could make matters worse.

  47. Have a forgiving view of events and people. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world.

  48. Have an optimistic view of the world. Believe that most people are doing the best they can.

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